Bibleline Radio Show – 2020-01-10 – How To Handle Guilt, Loneliness and Pride


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Don’t you take your Bible and turn it made to the book of Psalms, the book of Psalms. In Psalms 32, we had mentioned last week that everybody does things wrong. We’re just seeing the results of the sinful nature of man in the world. And man has not improved. All the technology has not changed man’s sinful nature. He’s still as wicked as he’s always been. In the very beginning when there was Adam and Eve and Cain enabled Cain killed it, he was just as mean and ugly and jealous and he murdered the man.

It was just as bad then as has always been. Nothing’s changed. Man’s sinful nature is still the same. You can’t improve the sinful nature of man. We have an old sinful nature and it’s rebellious, the truth to God. And here he says, what do you do when you do feel guilty? You ever do something wrong and you feel so guilty? Like eating that big old dessert and you feel guilty after you’ve done it. And you know that confession your sin is not going to change the outcome at all.

What do you mean if you can just confess that sin and I didn’t gain one ounce? I think some people think that’s the way it is with sin. There’s no consequence of because I confess my sin. Long as I confess my sin, there’s no consequences. Surprise, surprise. And I told you before, you can drink alcohol and realize, oh, the air of my ways and confess your sin. But if you damage your kidneys, your kidneys are still damaged. It doesn’t solve the problem.

So sometimes there’s ways that you feel. And if you’ll notice down here in verse 5, I acknowledge my sin under the and my iniquity, have I not hid?” And I said, I will confess my transgression unto the Lord, and Dauphah gave us the iniquity of my sin. And though you confess the sin that you do, you need to also change your ways. Should you change your ways and bring them into harmony with the Lord’s? I believe that’s what God wants us to do.

Now I want you to take your Bible and turn there too, essentially right here. Psalms 34, looking Psalms 34. Psalms 34 and looking verse 18. As you go through life, you’re going to find out that, you know, you’re going to feel alone at times, abandoned at times, and it seems like just things just don’t always go right. But what he says in verse 18, the Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart. Now the reason that I like this verse because I tied in with the book of Psalms and verse in chapter 51 where David prayed to the Lord and he says a broken and contrite spirit that’s what he’s looking for.

He God does not love the people who has a countenance of rebellion or pride, a conceited attitude toward God or anything else. So God warns us about that. But look what he says here. And save it such as be of a contrite spirit. So in the book of Psalms 51 and verse 17, it talks about that. And that’s what God wanted from David. He says, this is better than sacrifice and what you can do, I want that broken heart.

Do you have a broken heart when you do that which is contrary to the Lord? And if you do, then God says that He can forgive you. But that’s what he’s looking for, not a prideful rebellion against him. Look in verse 20 and you’ll see he keepeth all his bones, not one of them is broken. I wonder who that’s talking about. That was Jesus. In the Old Testament, some of these are Messianic Psalms and they will refer to the Lord Jesus Christ and written almost a thousand years before He came.

And he says in verse 21, evil shall slay the wicked, and they that hate the righteous shall be desolate. Ah, he says in verse 20, the Lord redeemeth the soul of his servants, and none of them that trust in him shall be desolate or left alone. Remember what Jesus said on the cross, my God, my God, why hast thou forsaken me? But God wants you to look, you’re not going to be desolate. He’s not gonna be left alone. There’s somebody who is always with you.

Once you trust Christ as your Savior, the Holy Spirit lives within you and He will never leave you and never forsake you. Isn’t that good to know? That ought to make you feel a little bit better. Also look there in the book of Psalms in chapter 10. Psalms 10. Just turn to your left there are a couple pages. Psalms 10. And I want you to look in verse one, in verse one, because there will be times in your Christian life when it seems like God is far, far away.

Have you ever prayed and sometimes it seems like, the ceiling is made out of brass and you can’t get through it? Well, there will be times like that, and there will be times when it seems like all the lights have been turned off you and you’re left in the dark. And sometimes it seems like all the walls moving in on you and closing in. And you don’t know what you can do. You don’t know where you can run. You don’t know where you can hide.

And sometimes you’re looking for just a little real light. You know that little real light is always that little real hope. Something that you can believe God’s going to come through. But to me, I had to learn this long time ago. True faithfulness to the Lord is when you remain faithful when it appears that God has let you down. There will be times when you’ll think God didn’t come through. I counted on him, I trusted in him, and he let me down.

You say, I’ve never been there. Oh, you will. Just as long as you have enough time, you’ll think that. But look what he says in verse 1. Why stand if thou far off, O Lord? Why hideest thyself in time of trouble? In other words, I need help, and I need it now. Isn’t it something that we always wait to pray, Lord, I need something two months from now, and I’m on a pray now feverishly. And we don’t do that.

We wait until the last minute. And then it’s a crisis. Have you ever created a crisis in your life? And then before that gets done, it seems like another crisis has hit. And before you saw that one, another crisis. And we’re almost like the government, ain’t we? they become diversions. You know the devil works on diversion. The do things that keep you from focusing upon what God wants you to do. So he creates a little trouble here. And then, little trouble over here, trouble over here.

And sometime it seemed like they all hit it the same time. That’s when it’s really rough, when it’s really hard. But I know what he says here. Look in verse two, the wicked in his, And here’s that word you ought to underline them. Pride, the persecute, the poor. Let them be taken in the devices that they have imagined. For the wicked, and here’s another word, boasteth, pride, persecutes. Verse three, boasteth of his heart’s desire and blesses the covetous whom the Lord have hoarse.

In other words, you’re not on the same page. There are wicked people in this world that seem like they prosper. As he says in Psalms, have you ever become envious at the prosperity of the wicked? When here you are, you’re God’s child and you’re giving it all you’ve got and seeking to do what’s right. And other people live like the devil. And it seems like everything they touch, touch terms of gold and they’re happy. And it said, I thought the wicked was supposed to be miserable.

And I’m the one that’s miserable and they’re happy and just don’t seem fair. Maybe I need to live like they do. And this is why David made the statement. He says, my feet had well nice lift. But I considered their end. In other words, it’s not over yet. It’s not over yet. When you and I leave this world, God is going to reward us and bless us with more blessings and more happiness and more whatever than what they ever even thought about it.

And it says that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory that shall be. Are you going to win? You’re going to win. Are they going to lose? They’re going to lose. Don’t look at it now, but down the road in results. And the Bible says you shall reap if you faint not. Keep looking to the Lord, keep trusting the Lord. And God will bless. But look what else he says here. In verse four, because this is the prideful person.

This is why you have to watch that you don’t do this and be like this because then you will sin against God and then you’re gonna have all those feelings of guilt because you didn’t do what God wanted you to do. So he says in verse four, the wicked through the, and here’s that word again, pride of his countenance will not seek after God. God is not in all his thoughts. This is why God hates the sin of pride because see, pride means I can handle it.

What do I wanna do with my life? I’m going to do whatever I please that makes me happy. And there’s Christians that make decisions based upon what they want and has nothing to do with what God wants. God is not in all their thoughts. For you and I that know the Lord, we should always be thinking that, what would God want me to do? What does God want me to know? What does God want me to be? And you’re always thinking like that because that keeps you from being prideful and going your own way.

All we light, sheep have gone astray. Now after you trust the Lord, that never happens anymore, right? Or is it possible for Christians that still want to go their own way? So he says, God is not in all his thoughts. So evidently, God does expect to be in all of our thoughts. True, when you kind of come up with that conclusion? Look at, he says in verse five, His ways are always grievous. Thy judgments are far above out of his sight.

As for all his enemies, he puffed at them. He had said in his heart, I shall not be moved. That’s why I wonder sometimes when we think, is I shall not be, I shall not be moved. I shall not be, I shall not be moved. That should be the theme song of most Baptist churches. They refused to be moved. And yet it all depends on context and perspective of what you’re talking about at the time. There’s time when we are supposed to be according to the Bible in 1 Corinthians 15 verse 58, where he talks about being steadfast, unmovable.

So we’re be unmovable because we know what we believe in. Nothing’s going to move me. And Paul says, I shall not be moved. I will not be moved. So there’s times and yes that’s true and that’s good, but you got to remember. Make sure when it comes to the Lord you’ll do whatever God wants you to do. But He says here in verse 6, For I shall never be in adversity. In other words, the powerful man thinks that nothing is going to go wrong.

Everything is going to be wonderful. Isn’t this why we sometimes go into debt because we know that we’re going to get more money than we have this year? And things are going to be better than it was last year. And so therefore we are assuming, and is it possible that you can make decisions based on that and it gets worse? You lose your job. You can’t make the payments. Look what God did to me. Has God made us sign anything?

Did God make us sign and say, well, when I got married, he brought that woman to me. God did that. Look what, it’s all God’s fault. You know God gets blamed for a lot of stuff. I think even the devil gets blamed for something they didn’t do. Mama told her boy, says, you stay away from that lake. Mama can I just go down there and stand there and just watch the other kids? All right, but don’t you get in the water.

If you get tempted, you just say, get behind me, say, so Mama goes up there later and there’s her boy and they’re just a swim and having a big time. I tell you mama mama mama mama you told me to tell the devil to get behind me I did mama and he pushed me in now my fault. Always somebody else’s fault, but look at the prideful man. See, they’re in verse 7, his mouth is full of cursing and deceit and fraud under his tongue is mischief and vanity.

He sit it in the lurking places of the villages, in the secret places that the, the he murdered the innocent. His eyes are privately set against the poor. He lyeth and wait secretly as a lion in his den. He lyeth and wait to catch the poor. He doth catch the poor when he draw him into his neck. He That the poor may fawn want him. He has said in his heart, Thou hath forgotten. He has not had faith.vernment9 }, He shall see it.

God does not know. God has created the world. When he is dead he will truel the back side of the galaxy to be together, Jonathan we’re on our own. I believe God is, you know, this is what blows my mind. God is able to see every individual, but think about this. To see every individual at every angle, from every angle, every individual, everywhere, all the time. There is no place that his eyes cannot see or from every angle. You ever look at something from an angle, you ever watch these guys play golf and they line up that putt and then they’ll walk on this side and they’ll look at that putt and then they walk on the other side and line that putt up again.

Then they walk all the way on the other side and they line up that putt again trying to see whether or not does it go downhill, does it go uphill, does it lean a little bit here and they walk up, they’re halfway and they stand there trying to see the feel in their feet, whether or not it goes this way or this way. And then they look at the cut and see if the cups lean in this way just a little bit because it leans a little bit.

That means it’s kind of sloped to the right. If it leans this way, it’s kind of sloped to the left. So they look at it from the other angle. Ah-ha, speeds up right there. Why they don’t look at it at different angles? Wouldn’t it be something if you could, you automatically see everything from every angle all at the same time and got it right. Well that would be some golfer. I think the Lord you live inside of me but I’ve always been afraid to invoke divine intervention because that means I’m cheating against the other guy and I wouldn’t want to cheat the other guy because I’ve got God helping me and this poor fellow doesn’t have God helping him.

So when I go play golf, I tell people, I’m a preacher. I say, I preach better than I play golf. And the reason is because if I play too good, people would think that I spend too much time on the golf course. So I purposely play bad. Everybody buys all this? I don’t think y’all believe a word I’m saying. Alright let’s look back at the word in verse 12 says, Arise, O Lord, O God, lift up thy hand, forget not the humble.

See those words? You ought to unalign it. Forget not the humble. Who’s the humble? The person that depends on God. Humility is not a position of the body. It’s a position of the mind and so therefore to do this. And that’s why it’s so important. Learn to do the thing that God wants us to do. Look in Psalms 25, you’re right there close, Psalms 25. Psalms 25 and looking verse 16. And you’ll notice in verse 25 and verse 16 he says, turn thee unto me and have mercy upon me, for I am desolate and afflicted.

The troubles of my heart are enlarged. O bring down me out of my distresses. Look upon my afflictions and my pain and forgive all my sins. Consider my enemies for they are many and they hate me with cruel hatred.s keep my soul and deliver me. Let me not be ashamed for I put my trust in thee. Let integrity and uprightness preserve me for I wait on thee.” And I think that’s a good way to think it’s a good way, a good way to think about what God has done for us turning about to the middle of Matthew and chapter five Matthew and chapter five You are going to have to realize that as a child of God, everything is not going to go your way.

you are going to have to realize that as a child, everything is the goal your way But you’re still expected to go your way, and some things are not going to go your way. So in Matthew chapter 5, Jesus is talking to the disciples, and many of these things are going to apply to the time of the Kingdom of Heaven when he sets up his Kingdom upon the earth. Reed Matthew is always talking to Israel, and it’s about how they’re going to be when he rules and reigns.

But he says this, in verse 12, rejoice and be exceeding glad for great is your reward in heaven. So you and I are supposed to know, yes, not everything is going to be wonderful that happens to you in life. A lot of things are going to go wrong and you’re not going to have an easy road. It’s going to be filled with all kinds of problems and so forth in life. And so he says, for so persecuted they the prophets which were before you.

So even though that’s going to you’reing to happen, here’s what it’s what I want you to do. You see, they won’t have to persecute you unless they know that you are good salt and a good light. See the following verses have to do with let them see your good works, that they may glorify your Father which is in heaven. But understanding by doing the things that are right, not everyone is going to glorify your Father which is in heaven, but there might be some that will.

But the reason why you do what you do is so important. And so he says in verse 13, ye are the salt of the earth. So therefore we are supposed to be little salt shakers. Have you ever@@ been to a restaurant and you get ready to pour the salt out and it won’t come out? You know what somebody did. I was sitting there and I was trying to get it out and it wouldn’t come out. She came up and she took a knife and she just put it on the the back of the salt thing and just running around the back of the thing.

I was saying, just start to fall in the middle. I said, what did you just do? She says, it’ll work on the pepper. I also took the pepper and then the pepper wouldn’t come out. So she just run a knife over the back of the shaker. And I just started coming out of there. And I, but she couldn’t shake it. She couldn’t shake it. I couldn’t get it. She had a new little trick. And I still can’t figure out how it worked, but it worked.

And I’ve tried it since then and it still never worked. I don’t know what George did. But sometimes, you know, the salt doesn’t come out. If the salt doesn’t come in contact with whatever you want it to, it doesn’t preserve anything and doesn’t change the taste of it. You’re there, but it doesn’t do any good. It’s like it’s lost its savor. It doesn’t have a purpose anymore. You and I are in this world. have a purpose. We have to come in contact with the world, but we’re not to be like the world.

We are here to affect the world. And the world cannot see unless we as the light. So you see there in verse 14, ye are the light of the world. City that is set on the hill cannot be hid. Neither do men light a candle and put it under a bushel of but on the can of state and they give a light unto all that are in the house. Remember the purpose of the light shining is not so everybody gets to see you.

It’s whatever the light is shining upon. There’s something that they want to see. You and I are just to be told in the hands of the Lord and therefore He says your reward will be great. But remember this, rewards are earned. So God is going to bless us with many opportunities. To get rewards. Now remember this, when we get to heaven, God is not going to take all those people who earned and got these rewards and give them to the people who didn’t do anything.

You see, God is not a Democrat. He said, well, he’s not a Republican. Well, whatever he is, he says, every man shall receive his own reward according to what? According to what? His own labor. In other words, if you don’t labor for the Lord, you don’t get anything. But those that do are going to be mighty glad they did. And God’s going to reward you when you get to heaven. But getting to heaven is the gift of God. You see, the only way we get to heaven is because of what Christ did on the cross force.

So Jesus Christ came in the world and it says nobody can earn eternal life. Heaven is not a reward given to those who’ve been good. been good. And hell is not what you’ve been bad. Everybody’s been bad. Nobody’s good enough to go to heaven. So when Christ died, He died for all. And only thing we have to do is believe that He did it for us and He gives us as a free gift ever lasting life. We go to heaven on what Christ did.

He came back from the dead and offered eternal life to whosoever believe it in him, believe that he did it for them. So if I believe he did it for me, he puts the payment he made to my account, I get to go to heaven on what Christ did. That’s the best news in the world. Yesterday I was with Betty and they was over there doing some stuff with big hole 18 wheeler. Betty says, you didn’t get there’s a person here, a Jewish man and a couple others.

And I want you to talk to him. So I want I went over there. I didn’t walk where I drove over them. And And so we just stopped all of them, said, come into the garage and I talked to them. And two of the guys trust the Lord, Gentiles, and a Jewish man. And it was so neat. Just explain the gospel to them. So they trust the Lord. They have eternal life. See, there first of all, you have to trust the Lord.

They get eternal life. So you go to heaven. Now after you trust the Lord, now we serve the Lord. But we don’t serve the Lord to get there. We serve the Lord because we’re going there. I’m going to heaven. But God says, if I would serve him here, he will reward me there. So look at the opportunities God gives to us to serve him. Some of you may have a lot of years. Some of you won’t have as many years.

Some of you may have a lot of opportunities and some may not have as, it doesn’t matter how long you live or how many opportunities you have, be faithful to do what you can with what you have, where you are. And God says He’ll reward you when you get to heaven. But do you believe that? You’ve got to believe that because it is the truth and it’s so important. Let’s pray, shall we? Father, we thank You so much for all You’ve done for us.

Thank You for the opportunity and we have to come before You. We thank You Lord for the opportunity to preach Your Word for every person here, for those listed by Reddy Young. We’re so thankful that salvation is free. I just paid it all in Christ’s name and pray. You’ve been listening to Bibleline, a teaching ministry of Calvary Community Church in Tampa, Florida with Dr. Ralph Arnold. We pray that you are blessed by today’s message. If you have enjoyed our commitment to the clear gospel of Jesus Christ, you can reach Bibleline and pledge your support to keep us on the air in your area by dialing tool free, 1-800-576-3771.

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